Category: Places to Explore

  • Coastal Views, Gelato, and Rooftop Vibes: The Ultimate Guide to Del Mar Plaza

    If you are looking for the perfect blend of ocean views, vibrant nightlife, exceptional food, and relaxed beachside energy, Del Mar Plaza needs to be at the top of your list. Perched right in the heart of Del Mar, and just a few minutes’ walk from Sea Grove Park, Powerhouse Park, and the beach, this open-air shopping and dining center captures the best of coastal San Diego living.

    Here is everything you need to know to make the most of your visit, whether you are stopping by for a quiet morning coffee or hitting the rooftop for an evening out.

    1. Rooftop Live Music & Ocean Views

    The top-deck ocean views at Del Mar Plaza are unmatched, making it one of the premier spots in North County for sunset drinks and live entertainment.

    • Rooftop Deck Music: Catch live music performances directly on the main ocean-view deck every Thursday and Saturday.
    • Monarch Ocean Pub: For mid-week and weekend music, Monarch hosts live performances on Wednesdays, Fridays, and Sundays. It boasts sweeping Pacific views, great cocktails, and a lively crowd. If you ask locals where to go for a vibrant 40+ or 50+ social scene, Monarch is always at the top of the list. While you will occasionally see a younger crowd, the demographic leans age-appropriate for those of us in this middle stage of life. I was also pleasantly surprised to see several very attractive men – take note, ladies. 😉

    2. World-Class Treats & Purpose-Driven Coffee

    Del Mar Plaza hosts a mix of upscale restaurants, casual bites, and local markets, but two spots deserve special mention:

    • Coming Soon: The insanely popular cafe brand La La Land Cafe (famous in LA and beyond for its signature yellow cups and “drive-by kindness” campaign) is opening at Del Mar Plaza. Beyond great coffee, La La Land’s core mission is providing job training, mentorship, and paid internships for youth aging out of the foster care system—a phenomenal initiative to support.

    3. The Ultimate Saturday Morning Routine: Kini Coffee

    While waiting for La La Land to open its doors, your morning stop should be Kini Coffee, a charming coffee cart parked right in the plaza.

    • The Pick: Grab an iced vanilla latte—it is easily one of the best around.
    • Pro Tip on Hours: Check Google Maps for their opening hours rather than their website, as local cart hours can vary (they typically open at 9:00 AM).
    • The Vibe: Grab your brew right at 9:00 AM on a Saturday, head up to the rooftop deck, snag a cozy couch under an umbrella, and enjoy a quiet chapter of your book. During the summer, the quiet peacefulness lasts until about 10:00 AM before the weekend energy picks up.

    4. More to Explore in the Plaza

    Beyond music and coffee, Del Mar Plaza is home to a balanced ecosystem of wellness and local shopping:

    • Fitness & Wellness: Drop in for a class at the local yoga or pilates studio, or get a mani and pedi.
    • Boutiques: Check out the new bookstore, or market, or find your next statement piece at the jewelry store.
    • Food: From artisanal bakeries to Mexican or Italian food, Japanese or breakfast, you can find something for just about any craving.
    • Event Calendar: Always check the official Del Mar Plaza website before visiting—they maintain an updated schedule of weekly happy hours, live music lineups, and seasonal community events.

    5. Logistics: Parking & Beach Access

    • Parking Warning: There is an underground parking garage on-site, that is free for the first hour, but the spots are notoriously tight. If you drive a large SUV or truck, you may want to save yourself the stress, and opt for street parking nearby or use a rideshare.
    • Beach Proximity: Planning a full day out? The plaza is just a quick 2-to-3-minute walk down to Sea Grove Park and Del Mar City Beach, making it easy to pair a morning beach walk with an afternoon gelato or evening cocktails.

    Have you visited Del Mar Plaza recently, or do you have a favorite business to visit there?

  • San Diego’s Best Kept Secret: Hiking the Torrey Pines Extension

    If you visit San Diego, someone is bound to tell you to hike Torrey Pines. And they are absolutely right—you should. The sweeping ocean views, the rugged cliffs, and the iconic coastal chaparral make it an amazing, quintessential Southern California experience.

    But there is a catch: everyone else knows it’s amazing, too.

    Very few people will ever tell you to hike the Torrey Pines Extension. In fact, most tourists – and even many locals – don’t even know it exists. Located just inland from North Torrey Pines Beach, separated from the main reserve by the Los Peñasquitos Lagoon, this smaller, quieter pocket of wilderness is an absolute hidden gem.

    Before we dive into my favorite route through the Extension, it helps to understand why this land is so incredibly special.

    The Rarest Pine in North America

    To appreciate the Extension, you have to know a little bit about the tree that gives the area its name. The Torrey Pine (Pinus torreyana) is the rarest pine tree in North America. Today, it grows naturally in only two places on Earth: right here on the San Diego coast, and on Santa Rosa Island off the coast of Santa Barbara.

    These gnarly, wind-sculpted trees are a living relic of the Ice Age. Thousands of years ago, the climate here was cooler and wetter, and Torrey Pines thrived. As the region transformed into a dry desert ecosystem, the pines died off, surviving only in this specific microclimate where the coastal fog provides just enough moisture to keep them alive.

    In the early 1900s, philanthropists like Ellen Browning Scripps and visionary locals like Guy Fleming realized this rare forest was at risk of being completely wiped out by development. Thanks to their massive conservation efforts, the main Torrey Pines City Park was protected (eventually becoming a State Natural Reserve in 1959).

    But what about the Extension? In the late 1960s, a pristine grove of Torrey Pines across the lagoon was slated to be bulldozed for residential housing. A grassroots group of passionate locals banded together, raised millions of dollars, and partnered with the state to purchase the land, permanently saving what we now know as the Torrey Pines Extension.

    Hiking the Extension: A 3-Mile Hidden Loop

    Because it’s tucked away behind a residential area, the Extension sees a fraction of the foot traffic of the main reserve. You get the same dramatic sandstone landscapes, the same rare trees, and the same stunning ocean vistas, but with an immense sense of peace and quiet.

    I had hiked the Torrey Pines Extension once about two years ago and absolutely loved it. However, because dogs aren’t allowed on the trail, it fell off my regular rotation. Now, with Pisco gone, returning here finally found its way back onto my to-do list—and it was every bit as special as I remembered.

    I’m especially a fan of going in the spring when the trails burst with colorful native wildflowers, but I just hiked it recently and can confirm: it is beautiful year-round.

    There are basically 2 main trails in the Extension, and each one is an out-and-back, but I found a way to connect them so I didn’t have to go out-and-back on one and then out-and-back on the other.

    Here is a breakdown of the 3-mile loop I took (see the route map at the bottom of this post!):

    The Ascent: The hike starts with a good, heart-pumping uphill climb. You’re immediately surrounded by beautifully rugged landscape, winding through the unique sandstone formations and chaparral.

    The Neighborhood Views: As you crest the hill, you’ll come out into a beautiful, quiet Del Mar neighborhood. I’m always a fan of walking through neighborhoods like this because the houses are fun to look at. And this route did not disappoint.

    The Best Elementary School in the World? One of the most interesting parts of this specific route is that it takes you right past Del Mar Heights Elementary School. Their baseball field and grassy recess space look directly out over the Pacific Ocean. Can you imagine going to a school like that? It has to be the most scenic playground in the state.

    Hidden Parking and View: The best part of this hike, in my opinion, was actually a surprise to me. At the top of the other trail, the one we were heading back down on, there is a parking area with killer views. This is a great secret spot for watching sunsets! (Shhh….don’t tell anyone.)

    The Overlook: After heading back down into the canyon, we took a final detour back up to an overlook on the left-hand side of the trail. There is a strategically placed bench waiting for you at the top. It is the perfect spot to sit, catch your breath, and enjoy a few minutes of well-deserved rest while staring out at the water.

    Know Before You Go

    • Location: The main trailheads for the Extension are located off Del Mar Scenic Parkway and Mira Montana Drive.
    • Leave No Trace: Just like the main reserve, this is a protected habitat. Stay on the marked trails to protect the shallow roots of the Torrey Pines, and remember that no dogs or food are allowed on the trails.
    • Be Snake Aware: Like everywhere in San Diego, you might encounter a rattlesnake. On a previous visit, a hiker heading down warned us they had just passed one on the trail. We didn’t end up seeing it, but it was a good reminder that they’re definitely around! Many of the trails are fairly narrow, so wear long pants or tall socks to protect against brush (and snakes!), and keep a lookout while you hike.
    • The Route: Check out my map below for the exact 3-mile loop we took!

    Have you ever explored the Torrey Pines Extension, or do you usually stick to the main reserve? Let me know your favorite local trails in the comments!

  • A Better Way to Get to Know San Diego

    A Better Way to Get to Know San Diego

    San Diego gets flattened into a postcard pretty fast. A beach. A sunset. A fish taco. Nice, sure, but if you are trying to figure out where you might actually want to live, or even just how the city really feels from one pocket to the next, that version is not especially helpful.

    That is where Allesen Wanderland comes in. This is a place for neighborhood details, local perspective, and the kind of details you only notice when you spend time wandering around on purpose. The goal is simple: help you love where you live, or at least get a little closer to knowing where that might be.

    What you will find here

    • Neighborhood perspective beyond the usual talking points
    • Local lifestyle observations that make a place feel real
    • Thoughtful guidance for people moving to San Diego and locals looking closer at their own city
    • A personal point of view without the brochure language

    I am a California native, a UCSD alum, and someone who left San Diego and spend 20 years determined to come back. And when I did, I came back with fresh eyes. Which turns out to be useful. I may notice what longtime locals overlook, and I can also point out when a place is being oversold by people who have clearly never tried to park there on a Saturday.

    San Diego is not one thing. That is the whole point.

    Some posts will be practical. Some will be more observational. Some will probably begin with a walk, a side street, or a question that refuses to leave me alone. All of them will be written for people who want a more grounded, more useful, more human sense of this city.

    Who this is for

    If you are thinking about moving here, welcome. If you already live here but want to understand San Diego beyond your usual orbit, also welcome. If you like local writing with a little curiosity, a little honesty, and a strong preference for places that feel lived in rather than staged, you are in the right spot.

    There is a lot to explore. I plan to keep wandering.